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As Broad City's Ilana Glazer aptly pointed out a few years ago, "It's 2015-there are definitely nails on the menu." Five years later, that's still the case. While nailing is not yet a staple of our collective sexuality, it's definitely a choice, and it's certainly an interesting one. The changing landscape has led many of us to consider purchasing the first ever strap-on dildo (and to realize how complicated the world of strap-on shopping can be).
Needless to say, strap-on dildos did not start in Broad City. (Or in a 2013 episode with a fellow Kardashian family, he asked her about having anal sex afterwards. Take the PEG Scott Disick Cortney quote) The cooler community already has strap-on sex about as long as strap-on attachments have existed. So, since two of our favorite TV shows cover strap-on dildos, the idea is not only "cool" but incredibly nearsighted as well.
But there's still no reason not to buy your own - or at least explore the option of doing so. Sexual experimentation is a wonderful and enlightening thing. If you're interested in exploring the world of strap-on dildos - anal or vaginal intercourse - heterosexuality offers you real power. Shopping for a strap-on for the first time can be complicated. But you've already taken the first step: you've decided to learn more about strap-on dildos.
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Next, we'll cover dildo belly band selection and shopping. But for now, it's worth mentioning that you will eventually want to narrow your search even beyond what's available. It's not enough to find light that's compatible with the harness, you need to find dildos that are compatible with a specific harness , Cole says. You'll need to make sure the O-ring and dildo are the same diameter. "Buying a pocket pussy (that fits your harness is as important as the shoe!) It's important!" Dr. Jenni Skyler told Adam & Eve (Samspert) and Eve (Sexpert).
Find the size and shape that works best for you.
Different dildos are suitable for different types of play. For example, anal toys for beginners tend to be slimmer than vaginal toys for beginners. More advanced players tend to prefer larger belt toys (for vaginal and anal penetration), Skyler notes.
"As with any new sex toy, it's always better to start small and gradually improve your position so that the penetrated partner can comfortably adjust to the sensations," Cole says. (She also notes that smaller dildos tend to be easier to control than larger ones.) When it comes to styling, Cole suggests starting with simpler, more fluid styles. Non-realistic dildos are softer and more comfortable than realistic dildos, and simple shapes are easier to navigate.
Plus, both experts note that the material is safe, low-allergenic and easy to clean-a winner in all respects.
That said, make sure you don't use your silicone toys in combination with silicone based lubricants. In this case, it's like degradation. As a result, silicone based lubricants can actually corrode your silicone toys, which is no fun for anyone. If you plan to use lube (and you absolutely should if you're exploring anal sex play), choose either the water-based or oil-based option.
Find a harness that feels right to you.
Now that we've covered the basics of bondage dildos, it's time to explore the other half of bondage sex: the harness.
Start by browsing the strap-on harness sections on some of your favorite sex toy stores (we recommend Lovehoney, Adam & Eve, and Babeland). You may notice the look of belts and underwear - these are harnesses (note the aforementioned O-ring Cole). But leather and belts are not the only way to go. There are tons of seat belts made of cloth and shaped like underwear or panties. They are just as viable as the leather option (again, note the O-ring).
Underwear and panty-style harnesses tend to be sized like traditional clothing (small, medium, large, etc.), while leather harnesses tend to be all-around. That said, many leather straps come with "straps that can be adjusted to fit almost any size," says Cole. So go to your store in person, try them out and see how they feel.
Once you find a harness you like, make sure it's compatible with the size and shape of the dildo you're interested in. Otherwise, you will need to find a new dildo or a new harness. To avoid potential mismatches, Cole recommends purchasing a bundled backpack. These usually include dildos of various sizes, as well as harnesses with adjustable O-rings. These allow you to explore different kinds of toys using the same harness, while always knowing you'll have a perfect fit.
Take some time to get used to your lanyard before using it.
After purchasing a harness and matching harness, Cole recommends that you take some time to familiarize yourself with it before trying it out with a partner.
She says, "If you plan to be the recipient, try using the dildo yourself first; that way, you'll know it feels good and can tell your partner." If you plan to wear a strap-on, try it on and get used to how it feels on you. cole adds, "The more you think of it as a (literal) extension of yourself, the better."
When it comes time to actually use your fixtures, Cole says, slow down and make sure to communicate with your partner. "If you're on the receiving end, remember that your partner can't feel the dildo, so they will need you to tell them it feels good!" Cole added.
And make sure you have all the other features you need to keep the strap-on in top shape.
You did it. Now all you really need to do is enjoy the delightful new lanyard and perform enough maintenance to keep it in tip-top shape.
For starters, you'll need to clean the toy after each use. skyler notes, "Most toys can be cleaned easily and safely with warm water and soap." However, if you want to take it a step further, you can purchase a sex toy cleaner. (Cole recommends using Lovehoney Fresh toy cleaner for $14.99. It takes a couple to do it.)
While some post-game cleaning can seem a bit tedious, remember: Not only will this keep the toy as sanitary as possible, it will also extend the life of the toy. (And, since sex toys can get a little pricey, it's definitely worth it.)
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Of course, lubrication is basically always a good idea. If you're experimenting with anal penetration, be sure to use a lubricant. (Your vagina naturally secretes its own lube, but your rectum does not.) However, adding a little lube can benefit all kinds of play. Just make sure the lube you intend to use is compatible with your toy. (Remember, silicone toys and silicone lubricants don't match well.)http://cuatower.com/2016/01/make-sex-more-exciting-tips-for-men/
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